Same Mistake, Different Problems, Better Solutions

Many girls nowadays feel that they need a boyfriend, when in fact we don't! A man can not make us feel special or prettier just by being with them. The only two men that can is first and for most God, Jesus Christ Son of Man, and of course the Man of God that he has in store for us. But having that thought in my mind i have caught myself making the same mistake. It drives me nuts knowing the pain i have allowed myself to endure in past experiences and yet i still go after the same thing. Sometimes it just takes one word to make a girl fall into the arms of the wrong man. During the fall they think this "man" is the one and then when it comes the time for him to catch her she realizes he was not preparing for her to fall for him. That's why girls hit the ground so hard it ends their desire to ever be truly loved. So girls give your self some credit and make a man want you first before you start wanting them. Many men take vulnerable women for granted and do with them as they please. What we need is to stand our ground and get the respect from men. I have never been a girl with no respect for myself, a boy would touch me inappropriately and i just quickly turned around and kicked him in the balls. No man has ever had the guts to touch me again. Of course every girl will go through her soft as a feather and stupid like a duck phase and make idiotic decisions, but just as we go through all that we have to eventually become resistant to men who take girls for granted. Be smart and strong and stand for your heart and save your self for a man who is worth your hand. There is a saying that goes "you will cry tears from time to time but you have to choose who is worth your tears". No girl should be treated anything less than a princess. Choose your ground stand firm in it and do not make the same mistake with a different problem, make a better solution for your self ! Have some dignity and respect for your self girls. Not every man is bad but every women can be just as bad if not badder. Make them earn your love!

One Person I’m Glad I Met

You know how every little girl secretly dreams of her fairy tale wedding? Well i was once that little girl. Growing up i always watched these disney movies and how the princess was waiting for her prince charming. And i always stayed thinking will my prince charming come one day? I eventually reached an age where i slowly started to unvail my love life. I met guys here and there had illusions about them. One day i met this guy that treated me like i was a door mat, or a coat he hung in the closet and only wore when he was cold (metaphor). I thought he was the best boyfriend because some weird part of me thought thats the way girls get treated. But man oh man was i wrong, i saw the beautiful relationships my best friend had and i knew i was being mistreated by my "so called" boyfriend. I got so many heart breaks like that, thinking the next guy i met was "the one". When little did i know i was not looking for Mr.Right i was looking for Mr.right now. I later on got into another bad relationship and that's when i had enough. I was at the time of  ,these bad relationships, babysitting my cousin full time. And then came the time to find another job. So i was blessed with the wonderful job i currently have as a VPK teacher at a private christian school. So at the time i started my new job i had made a decision to stop looking for love and concentrate on my job. I am 22 and i had made this very crucial decision to end my quest of love. And having my heart close to love ,i met the most wonderful guy i've ever had the honor of meeting. It was literally love at first sight! I couldn't believe my eyes i was looking in the eyes of my future. He was charming, funny, smart, handsome, and he had this awesome vibe that i picked up almost immedietly. I met him at the preschool but he was doing his volunteer hours for his senior year credits, and he was remodeling and stuff in my school. And we started to talk one day as we passed each other in the hall way and ever since then sparks grew between us. He had two little nieces that attended my school and he was responsible for them,he picked them up everyday. I started working there May 9 ,2011 it was on july 10th that we started to notice each other. And on July 15th we hanged out after work in a little playground in his comlex which was right behind my school. We liked each other right away, and as i was leaving home he walked me back to the front of my school and on the way there i made my move. I asked for his number so we can hang out again when i get off work. Since july 15th not a day has gone by that we do not talk. We began dating on August 3 ,2011, and we are till this day going strong. We fell in love a week after we met! I thought it was too good to be true and sometimes it can. But this fire that lit up in us that could not be quenched was too strong to ignore. In me i had this burning desire to tell him "i love you" and one night while we were just about to get off the phone, i told him i loved him, and the best feeling arose in me when i learned he too felt the same desire. I now know what true love feels like, and i know that this is real not because im comparing it to the Disney movies, but because i feel the way i have never in my life felt before. Where his happiness became essential to my own. What i feel for him is less of earth and more of a cloudless heaven. I wanted to know what love is and i know it oh so very well because of the person im glad i met, Bryan Ramses Nuno.