Same Mistake, Different Problems, Better Solutions

Many girls nowadays feel that they need a boyfriend, when in fact we don't! A man can not make us feel special or prettier just by being with them. The only two men that can is first and for most God, Jesus Christ Son of Man, and of course the Man of God that he has in store for us. But having that thought in my mind i have caught myself making the same mistake. It drives me nuts knowing the pain i have allowed myself to endure in past experiences and yet i still go after the same thing. Sometimes it just takes one word to make a girl fall into the arms of the wrong man. During the fall they think this "man" is the one and then when it comes the time for him to catch her she realizes he was not preparing for her to fall for him. That's why girls hit the ground so hard it ends their desire to ever be truly loved. So girls give your self some credit and make a man want you first before you start wanting them. Many men take vulnerable women for granted and do with them as they please. What we need is to stand our ground and get the respect from men. I have never been a girl with no respect for myself, a boy would touch me inappropriately and i just quickly turned around and kicked him in the balls. No man has ever had the guts to touch me again. Of course every girl will go through her soft as a feather and stupid like a duck phase and make idiotic decisions, but just as we go through all that we have to eventually become resistant to men who take girls for granted. Be smart and strong and stand for your heart and save your self for a man who is worth your hand. There is a saying that goes "you will cry tears from time to time but you have to choose who is worth your tears". No girl should be treated anything less than a princess. Choose your ground stand firm in it and do not make the same mistake with a different problem, make a better solution for your self ! Have some dignity and respect for your self girls. Not every man is bad but every women can be just as bad if not badder. Make them earn your love!